"I love peace and quiet, I hate politics and turmoil. We women are not made for governing, and if we are good women, we must dislike these masculine occupations."

- Queen Victoria

"I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is:  I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a door mat or a prostitute."

- Rebecca West

Lately, I've become intrigued by gender politics. It's an issue that is quite important (esp. in terms of childhood development) and highly frustrating.

The quotations above reflect the views of two women on different sides of the role of women in society and relationships. I selected them not because men haven't contributed eloquently to this debate but based on the fact that the direction of how we view gender will most heavily rely on the female perspective given that we are transitioning from (or reinforcing) a world-wide culture that has embraced patriarchy.

As a human being, I believe it is essential to respect others and not restrict their ambitions as long as they do not harm those around them, regardless of gender.

As a Christian, I have been taught that a man is the leader in a marriage but would be foolish to not seek (and heed) council from his wife on decisions.

Therefore, while I believe women can lead as effectively as men (and should be given the opportunity to do so) on a global level, men are primarily responsible for the welfare of their family and have the final decision on a household level.

I'm curious of what others believe on gender. I think it's important to read perspectives different from your own. So, what is your view on gender roles?